98 Not an Option

Either we humble ourselves, or we will be humbled. Humbling ourselves is the better option.

For everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, and he who humbles himself will be exalted. Luke 18:14

Jesus called them together and said, “You know that those who are regarded as rulers of the Gentiles lord it over them, and their high officials exercise authority over them. Not so with you. Instead, whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant, and whoever wants to be first must be slave of all.” Mark 10:42-44

James and John requested to be next to Jesus in the Kingdom of God. The rest of the disciples reacted to James and John’s request in a typically human manner. In a like manner, we seek to be elevated over others. We also resent those over us. How peculiar, we resent those who succeed but if we were to succeed, we would think we deserved our success and others should be glad for us. We cling to this double standard. We wish ourselves fortune and others failure. We won’t complain when we get what is better. We only say, “That’s not fair!” when others get something better than we do.

How about this: The next time we get some special benefit, say, “It’s not fair that I received this special privilege that others didn’t receive!” Let’s try it now, “It’s not fair that I get to live in the first world while others are living in destitute poverty all around the world! It’s not fair that I am saved while others are going to hell. It’s not fair that I get to experience God’s love while others know nothing about it! I don’t deserve all the special privileges I am receiving!”

Complaining, “It’s not fair,” about receiving some benefit goes against our natural tendencies. Our flesh is naturally selfish. We want what we want when we want it, and we want others to be happy about it. “Me! Me! Me!” is the cry of our hearts. Telling ourselves to be humble is like teaching a cat to do tricks. We cannot make ourselves humble. Neither can others make us humble because that would be shaming.

“He who humbles himself…” How then do we humble ourselves? We definitely need God’s help in the process, and the great thing is we can ask for His help. This is in itself an act of humbling ourselves before Him. I hope to talk about prayer and God’s nature in upcoming posts.

Prayerfully Yours,

Noah Woodrich

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97 Humility Summary

The secrets to humility change how we relate to others. These secrets are:  Weakness, Worship Listening Obedience, Confession, Learning not to Boast, Responsibility, Overlooking an Offense, Pain, Asking for Help, Receiving Gifts, Thankfulness, Receiving Compliments, Seeking to Understand, Advice, Yielding an Argument, Understanding Anger, Forgiving, Giving, Serving, Contentment, Waiting, Joy, Kindness, Rest, The Right Fear, Salvation and Clothed.

Does the above list seem impossible to accomplish? Good, because it is. We cannot humble ourselves with our own power. Owning our inability to make ourselves humble actually moves us closer to true humility. Realizing our limitations, we cry out to God for help, placing ourselves under His mighty hand.

His divine power has given us everything we need for life and godliness through our knowledge of Him Who called us by His Own glory and goodness. II Peter 1:3

The humility list could continue indefinitely. Any circumstance beyond our ability teaches us humility. When bad things happen, let us rejoice! Yes, rejoice in the bad things that happen to us. God uses them to develop humility in our character. (James 1:2-4) We need humility to receive the good things God has for us as gifts. Faith, hope and love (I Corinthians 13:13) also become a part of our character. These four traits work together.

A secret for losing humility is to talk about how good we are at it. (Luke 18:12) Even if we are not boasting about how humble we have made ourselves, talking about humbling ourselves can open our hearts to seeking praise from men rather than praise from God. In reminding one another of the need to humble ourselves we need to be sensible of the temptation toward claiming credit.

We resist humbling ourselves. Humbling ourselves can be agonizing because we become aware of the shame as well as the other feelings and memories that go with it. Pride masks our shame. Letting go of pride makes us vulnerable. Allowing ourselves to look at all of this is a step in the process of finding freedom from pride, shame and perfectionism. We allow ourselves to heal when we let go of denying our shame. We can respond to shame either with humility or with pride. Shame is masked by pride. We are not freed from shame by pride. God liberates us with humility. We are freed from shame as we humble ourselves under His mighty hand. (1 Peter 5:6)

Realizing I have lots to let go of,

Noah Woodrich

WITH ME: Wisdom Intercession Teaching/Shepherding Hospitality Mercy Encouragement

Bringing grace and truth to the downcast; comforting others with the comfort, which we have been comforted.

We have a dream & need support and prayers.

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