100 Receiving Prayer

Perfectionism afflicts us emotionally and mentally as a disease. Disease is dis-ease and uneasiness as well as dysfunctionality. Perfectionism wars against peace and rest. It allows no comfort nor any type of easing of pain. Perfectionism causes much of our pain.

Is any one of you sick? He should call the elders of the church to pray over him and anoint him with oil in the name of the Lord. James 5:14

Other people will pray for us if we ask. This becomes necessary for our healing and growth. Perfectionism itself blinds us to our own perfectionistic behaviors. In fact, those very behaviors and the rewards we reap from them reinforce our perfectionistic belief systems.

We cannot see what others plainly see. The nearness of our own problems prevents us from seeing them clearly, like trying to focus on one’s own nose. Others provide a mirror to see our reflection. Further, they pray for us in ways which we would not even think to pray.

Receiving prayer is humbling. Yea! (Throw your arms up in the air and shout!) We get to humble ourselves by asking for prayer. We make ourselves vulnerable when sharing such deep issues. Also, we ask for help in asking for prayer. We resist asking because we are proud. Is losing our pride such a bad thing? Let us let go of pride and ask for prayer.

Whom can we ask? Our churches or bible studies have people who can pray for us. Many churches have prayer teams during services and prayer ministries where an appointment for prayer can be made. The website or information line may say how to receive prayer. We can definitely ask friends, family or co-workers in our lives to pray.

Those safe people who pray for us do so in ways we do not think to pray. As an added benefit, they will agree with us in our own prayers for freedom from perfectionism. Our becoming free from perfectionism will benefit those around us.

Yes, asking for prayer is humbling. Remember, humbling ourselves helps to free us from pride, shame and perfectionism. Either we humble ourselves, or we will be humbled.

Blessed and calling for more,

Noah Woodrich

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99 Prayer

I confess it, I am proud. Moreover, I am proud of being proud. As bad as pride is, I find myself unwilling to let go of it. I want to be proud. I am incredibly self-idealistic and grandiose. I have the answers to life’s struggles; if only people would listen to me, I could solve their problems, or so I think. Yes, this is incorrect. In reality I am not able to heal myself, much less help others.

I sought God about my resistance to humbling myself and about how proud I am. I asked for several months, “How do I humble myself? I don’t want to!” I got the impression that I was to pray that He would help me to humble myself. I need to humble myself to even be able to ask God to help me humble myself.

Let us then approach the throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need. Hebrews 4:16

I started with a simple prayer, “God help me to humble myself.” I found this was not quite enough. I needed to cry out to Him. I realized that I was weak and unable to humble myself and cried out from the depths of my heart, “God have mercy on me a sinner! I am so proud, please forgive me! Help me to humble myself, Lord! I can’t do this on my own. I need your help. HELP!!!”

The idea I want to convey is that we need to pray from our hearts. How do we feel when we are unable to humble ourselves? What do we hear from God about our inability to humble ourselves and our lack of humility? Psalm 139 could be a starting place to look for insight on this. This powerful Psalm taught me how to pray for myself.

Jesus told His disciples…that they should always pray and not give up.Luke 18:1

We need to keep praying, especially if we see no ready answers because we will not totally be free until Heaven. Our pride separates us from God. We need to pray for the rest of our lives for humility. We will see progress. We will find our pride diminishing. We need to humble ourselves before Him in order to receive His mercy. Thank God, His grace enables us to come to Him!

The Lord taught us to pray, “Forgive us our sin”, because we constantly need forgiveness. Also, He said, “Lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil”, we need to be delivered from the temptation to pride. We have made pride and perfectionism into habits. We need to break those habits. We can only do so with God’s power.

“Because he loves Me,” says the Lord, “I will rescue him; I will protect him, for he acknowledges my name. He will call upon Me, and I will answer him; I will be with him in trouble, I will deliver him and honor him.” Psalm 91:14-15

Psalm 91 is such a powerful passage! It tells of God’s wonderful promises to protect and deliver.

Dwelling under the shelter of the Most High,

Noah Woodrich

WITH ME: Wisdom Intercession Teaching/shepherding Hospitality Mercy Encouragement

Bringing grace and truth to the downcast; comforting others with the comfort, which we received.

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98 Not an Option

Either we humble ourselves, or we will be humbled. Humbling ourselves is the better option.

For everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, and he who humbles himself will be exalted. Luke 18:14

Jesus called them together and said, “You know that those who are regarded as rulers of the Gentiles lord it over them, and their high officials exercise authority over them. Not so with you. Instead, whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant, and whoever wants to be first must be slave of all.” Mark 10:42-44

James and John requested to be next to Jesus in the Kingdom of God. The rest of the disciples reacted to James and John’s request in a typically human manner. In a like manner, we seek to be elevated over others. We also resent those over us. How peculiar, we resent those who succeed but if we were to succeed, we would think we deserved our success and others should be glad for us. We cling to this double standard. We wish ourselves fortune and others failure. We won’t complain when we get what is better. We only say, “That’s not fair!” when others get something better than we do.

How about this: The next time we get some special benefit, say, “It’s not fair that I received this special privilege that others didn’t receive!” Let’s try it now, “It’s not fair that I get to live in the first world while others are living in destitute poverty all around the world! It’s not fair that I am saved while others are going to hell. It’s not fair that I get to experience God’s love while others know nothing about it! I don’t deserve all the special privileges I am receiving!”

Complaining, “It’s not fair,” about receiving some benefit goes against our natural tendencies. Our flesh is naturally selfish. We want what we want when we want it, and we want others to be happy about it. “Me! Me! Me!” is the cry of our hearts. Telling ourselves to be humble is like teaching a cat to do tricks. We cannot make ourselves humble. Neither can others make us humble because that would be shaming.

“He who humbles himself…” How then do we humble ourselves? We definitely need God’s help in the process, and the great thing is we can ask for His help. This is in itself an act of humbling ourselves before Him. I hope to talk about prayer and God’s nature in upcoming posts.

Prayerfully Yours,

Noah Woodrich

WITH ME: Wisdom Intercession Teaching/Shepherding Hospitality Mercy Encouragement

Bringing grace and truth to the downcast; comforting others with the comfort, which we have been comforted.

We have a dream & need support and prayers.

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97 Humility Summary

The secrets to humility change how we relate to others. These secrets are:  Weakness, Worship Listening Obedience, Confession, Learning not to Boast, Responsibility, Overlooking an Offense, Pain, Asking for Help, Receiving Gifts, Thankfulness, Receiving Compliments, Seeking to Understand, Advice, Yielding an Argument, Understanding Anger, Forgiving, Giving, Serving, Contentment, Waiting, Joy, Kindness, Fasting, Rest, The Right Fear, Salvation and Clothed.

Does the above list seem impossible to accomplish? Good, because it is. We cannot humble ourselves with our own power. Owning our inability to make ourselves humble actually moves us closer to true humility. Realizing our limitations, we cry out to God for help, placing ourselves under His mighty hand.

His divine power has given us everything we need for life and godliness through our knowledge of Him Who called us by His Own glory and goodness. II Peter 1:3

The humility list could continue indefinitely. Any circumstance beyond our ability teaches us humility. When bad things happen, let us rejoice! Yes, rejoice in the bad things that happen to us. God uses them to develop humility in our character. (James 1:2-4) We need humility to receive the good things God has for us as gifts. Faith, hope and love (I Corinthians 13:13) also become a part of our character. These four traits work together.

A secret for losing humility is to talk about how good we are at it. (Luke 18:12) Even if we are not boasting about how humble we have made ourselves, talking about humbling ourselves can open our hearts to seeking praise from men rather than praise from God. In reminding one another of the need to humble ourselves we need to be sensible of the temptation toward claiming credit.

We resist humbling ourselves. Humbling ourselves can be agonizing because we become aware of the shame as well as the other feelings and memories that go with it. Pride masks our shame. Letting go of pride makes us vulnerable. Allowing ourselves to look at all of this is a step in the process of finding freedom from pride, shame and perfectionism. We allow ourselves to heal when we let go of denying our shame. We can respond to shame either with humility or with pride. Shame is masked by pride. We are not freed from shame by pride. God liberates us with humility. We are freed from shame as we humble ourselves under His mighty hand. (1 Peter 5:6)

Realizing I have lots to let go of,

Noah Woodrich

WITH ME: Wisdom Intercession Teaching/Shepherding Hospitality Mercy Encouragement

Bringing grace and truth to the downcast; comforting others with the comfort, which we have been comforted.

We have a dream & need support and prayers.

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